Culture
Persistence and Abandonment
Date:2012/2/15   Hits:1380
From the sensible day, we are always parents, relatives , friends, and teachers ' expectations , the hovering between sticking with abandon .

Students who persist for the final sprint. In their view , a decade studying hard , and only admitted to a university ideal to succeed in society , the family line . However , the world is not always satisfactory, as thousands of students on , how many are able to enter their desired college yet. Even if the ideal is to enter college , graduate , how many will find ideal job yet. Not to mention those who get the job student. Even so, our students are still reading on the road persisted.

Farmers insist the most primitive farming. Land is their only living space. Sunrise and sunset, facing the loess back into the air , all year round , rain or shine , with their own sweat to create a world of their own , which is kind of stick .

Business people insist on profit maximization. In their lives, every transaction field fluctuations , making them fragile nerves stretched even tighter ; pervasive sea suspicions , causing them to have to struggle for survival in a turbulent medium , which requires persistence.

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Stick for each of us , it is a pursuit, a wait , even cruel life again , people always choose to not give up . Because persistence is a prerequisite to achieve the ideal means heavy responsibilities and obligations , which means never give up the pursuit .

However, in upholding the same time, we still must learn to give up.

Renunciation does not mean escape. Give up their own life goals implies a careful correction , meaning a mature personality and rational means more necessary after the failure with perseverance and courage. When you can not do but want to get knowing when to give up ; into nothingness when you wait , you need to give up ; when your dreams are cruel reality break , you need to give up. Renunciation is a wisdom, an accomplishment , a detached , one kind of choice , it is the initial inexperienced to a mature life . Understand life should also know how to give .

Confucius once said: " At thirty , begins at forty , fifty to know your destiny ." From thirty to forty and then fifty , life is a big jump, this jump is from immature to mature. Since the thirties onwards , the accumulation of knowledge , the accumulation of wealth , gain experience, perception of life , married and age ; to a four -year-old entered the five -year-old , we will learn how to use subtraction to dress our lives, that is, to learn mind you abandon those who are not really need something , such as fair-weather friends do not want to continue exchanges , has the reputation of not earn can not, and so on. Otherwise, we will feel overwhelmed , and finally yourself down .

Life is choices that we need to learn to persevere , we must learn to give up. Realization of the ideal is always lucky, losing should always be accompanied by the loss of a bit frustrating, but the truth is beneath must have to think and we need to seriously grasp . So learn to give more difficult than learning to stick . So , in a sense , learn to give up is our true sign of maturity .

Wei Feifei / text ( SHB statistical accounting )

 

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